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EFT Tapping Script For Shame
Are you suffering from Shame? There is a good chance that modern Energy EFT can help.
Many people have successfully used EFT to treat Shame but we cannot make a claim of cure. How the EFT treatment is going to affect the symptoms of Shame is individual and can be surprising.
We are using Energy EFT, so we are treating the energy body or the emotional component of Shame. This can have amazing results but please be aware that we cannot promise to cure Shame with modern Energy EFT. EFT is not medicine, and it is not psychology. EFT comes from The Third Field in the Mind, Body, Energy triad. For severe physical or psychological conditions, please see the appropriate health care provider as well.
With this out of the way, let's get started on this EFT script for Shame.
A. Releasing Stress Around Shame
Having to deal with Shame is extremely stressful.
How stressed are you right now?
Look at the SUE Scale below and point to a number.
Now, let's tap a round of Energy EFT to start releasing some of this built up stress.
Put your hands on your heart of energy or heart of gold, close your eyes and take three deep breaths in and out.
Our EFT tapping set up or opening statement is:
In the heart position, take a deep breath in and say this on the outbreath.
Repeat three times.
Now we say the same words, "I release all my Shame stress now!" slowly and mindfully on every point as we tap with a loving touch.
Always start with a deep breath in and out, tap mindfully, say the words "I release all my Shame stress now!" take another deep breath in and out, and then we move on to the next point.
We end on the Heart Position and simply take three more deep breaths in and out.
Now check with the SUE Scale - what is your number now?
If it is still very low, below -3, we suggest a second round.
This time, the set up is, "I release my Shame, past, present and future."
You can repeat this EFT Tapping set up as many times as you need to get to Zero stress.
When you feel ready, move on to the next step.
B. I want to overcome this Shame!
Check with the SUE Scale that you are at least at -2 before you begin. Make a note of the number, this is important in the treatment of Shame with modern Energy EFT. We are working our way up the SUE Scale and the higher we get, the more profound the effects will be on the symptoms of your Shame.
As before, start in the Heart Position and make this statement, "I want to overcome this Shame!"
Allow yourself to be emotionally engaged, to really WANT to overcome the Shame.
You have a lot of power and modern Energy EFT helps to set that free. It is your own internal power, energy flow in your energy body, that will overcome the blockages that have caused your Shame.
Tap all the points, finish with the Heart Position and the three deep breaths, in and out.
Now check your number on the SUE Scale.
To really make a huge impact on the Shame we need to get high.
Use another round of EFT Energy Tapping with new set ups, for example:
"I want to overcome this Shame completely, totally, once and for all!"
Use your own words to express this desire/emotion.
You can change the words you say as you go along if you wish.
C. The Positive Antidotes To Shame
Now we are going to switch to Positive EFT and we ask, "What energy do you need to never have to experience Shame ever again?"
This is the positive energy antidote, and this is very important.
Choose from one of the positive energy forms below, or tap your own choice of energy (you know best what YOU need to recover completely from your Shame!)
In the Heart Position, we make the Energy EFT set up or opening statement:
As an example, we use LOVE as the positive energy form.
Say that three times with the three deep breaths, in and out, in the Heart Position.
When you tap the points, simply say, "More LOVE."
Check with the SUE Scale after every round of EFT Tapping.
Use more/different positive energies to get you as high as possible on the SUE Scale.
Tip: The more you want it, the better it will work!
D. The Test - How Do You Feel About The Shame Now?
Is there any negative emotion remaining you can feel in your body? If no, then you are done and congratulations!
If yes, choose what you want to do next.
Do you want to go back to B: "I want to completely overcome every last trace of Shame now!" ?
Or would you prefer to go back to C and choose more positive energy forms to overcome every last trace of the Shame?
Keep moving forward towards the +10 on the SUE Scale.
Don't stop too soon! Many people are so relieved when their Shame changes a little bit for the better, they stop too soon and don't completely overcome their Shame. When you stop too soon, the Shame will most likely come back and you have to treat it again and again.
Stay with it until you get at least +8 but +10 is safest!
If you find you can't stay with the script for Shame and don't make it all the way through to the +10, or other things come up in the course of the treatment, we strongly recommend you find a qualified Energy EFT practitioner who can keep you on track and add their energy to your healing process from Shame.
Finally, high stress can potentially bring the symptoms of Shame back. Should this happen, don't be dismayed. People get headaches, and take headache pills for this. They don't expect to never have a headache ever again after a single pill! For some problems, you simply need to repeat the EFT treatments as and when you need to. We particularly advise to use the positive energy as "the pill" that takes care of the Shame.